can't stop thinking about 17 hours a day. replacing one of those hours with literally any non-screen activity would be beneficial. do some shoplifting. take up vandalism. throw rocks at cars from your window.
i know it’s replacing small screen with big screen but one of the things I enjoy about going to see movies is it forces me to turn off my phone for 2-3 hours and be okay with it
Baby steps, she can start by replacing one hour of that time with, like, a video game. I'm not gonna read that article, so maybe I'm wrong with what she does, but I think converting one hour into something that might spark unconditional joy rather than just getting mad at social media would help
I’ll be randomly vulnerable and say in her defense that I also have/had just as much screen time as her when I was in an extremely deep depression just laying in bed all day all night. You distract yourself with your phone. It’s more bearable than staring at the ceiling.
The challenge for me is I'm willing to believe this is unhealthy behavior and possibly even addictive but the policy remedies proposed from Serious People all seem to have terrible second order consequences and/or are written by social media giants.
Also my feelings on the internet are best expressed by Ice-T in the 90s classic "Surviving the Game" who when asked how many cigarettes a day he smokes as a homeless man: "Yo as many as I can *get*".
Taylor Lorenz in her 85 degree apartment scrolling text based social media like it's a slot machine: how dare you put in the newspaper that I have a problem
(Please know I am not a TL hater, just a TL lore knower and fellow kitchen item of dark coloring who does not claim it is normal and good to stare at your phone 17 hours a day)
On the merits in isolation I think she’s correct that there are not serious extant studies backing up the posited conditions, but also she seems deeply pathological and we may not have a scientific category for what ails her (and many like her).
If I were to guess based on her public affect, she might be agoraphobic, but that’s between her and the mental health professionals I hope she is talking to.
Reporting on tech isn't the same thing as browsing social media for hours at a time. If someone is a politics reporter that doesn't mean they need to spend literally every waking hour obsessing over politics and feeling sad when they run out.
Shes posted 23 times on twitter today. That is Too Much.
Right, like there's no one else I know who has such an encyclopedic knowledge of what's going on online as TL. I'm sure this isn't healthy for her but she's doing it for a reason, it's her job
I’ve admittedly only caught some of her appearances on other shows but she comes across as knowledgable and not a total crank on the subjects that were discussed.
Phone addiction meets none of the diagnostic criteria for addiction. Not even the updated diagnostic criteria that better captures addictions like gambling or shopping.
Because it’s not in DSM-5-TR doesn’t mean it’s not a problem. 𝘐𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘦𝘵 𝘨𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘰𝘳𝘥𝘦𝘳 is listed in 𝘊𝘰𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘍𝘶𝘳𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘚𝘵𝘶𝘥𝘺. It’ll be a diagnosis (dx) soon. Ie., latest mental health dx is 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘥 𝘨𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘧 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘰𝘳𝘥𝘦𝘳.
Lorenz shud stay in her lane of being, as she describes, “peerless” I’ll add 💩
Lost in all of this is that she is QUOTING an article in the first tweet
I am not a Lorenz defender or whatever but the amount of credible people failing to 1. See the quotation marks and 2. Seek out additional context when they could instead dunk on Lorenz is worrying
"Banging on a skinner box for 18 hours a day to receive a hit of dopamine every 12 seconds is fine for your brain, its almost as good as draining bile from someone who is too choleric"
It sounds bad, but like, when I look at my phone screen time it doesn’t count my desktop screen time for work/study, so I’m probably hitting maybe not quite 17hrs a day, but not that far off.
Yes I go on social media and check messages & email, but I also read and study and stream stuff for my kid
I often think of what it's like for a certain type of person (this lady, Matty Glesias, Josh Barro) who make money because they are only famous among people who fucking hate them.
I'm a corporate video editor, and my brain feels like sludge on the rare occasions I edit 45+ hours a week straight. I can't even imagine doing that to myself on the reg
I work in IT for a living, video game as a hobby, and I don't log 17 hours a day even on work days and that's with 8 hours legally obligated to start with.
I dunno man, Taylor has done some actual excellent reporting on the nature of these verification ID laws, etc. I think you might be swinging in the wrong direction here.
Is she just never putting it down? Is she sleeping those other seven hours? I know she has some good takes but anyone with that high a screentime is questionable