OK again I never addressed the individual. I never spoke to the condition. I hate surgeons. They killed my friends. I no longer trust any surgeons. They are murders. I think my friend would be alive if they hadn't felt it was the only path to acceptance.

April 07, 2026 - 21:05 UTC

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I'm sorry for your loss. I've cared for love ones after 8 trans surgeries, had 1 myself, and coached quite a few others on the process. Many of the surgeons are assholes, but many specialize in trans surgeries because they value the positive impact they have. I've supported many through dark
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periods that they might not have survived on their own. Ultimately, a trans woman who takes her life after surgery would have likely done so sooner without. The rates of regret are among the lowest of any type of surgery, even when things go wrong. They don't fix having a shitty life, though.
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