I'm sorry for your loss. I've cared for love ones after 8 trans surgeries, had 1 myself, and coached quite a few others on the process. Many of the surgeons are assholes, but many specialize in trans surgeries because they value the positive impact they have. I've supported many through dark

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periods that they might not have survived on their own. Ultimately, a trans woman who takes her life after surgery would have likely done so sooner without. The rates of regret are among the lowest of any type of surgery, even when things go wrong. They don't fix having a shitty life, though.
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I've come to call the episode a grief tantrum. It doesn't reverse the harm, I do see the error. I need to tell my truth. I hope one person is saved if only by shopping for quality. My position is forbidden I understand. Don't Talk about my life where you can hear me.
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