like, as long as it doesn't hurt them or others... why should one fucking bother? this kind of mindset doesn't just make the people on the receiving end, but the people on the giving end miserable. people should just... loosen the fuck up and be chill.

August 25, 2025 - 15:50 UTC

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Goodness, yes. That "cringe = bad" reflex really does push people into people-pleasing. And you’re right, it doesn’t just fuck over the person getting mocked, it makes the person doing the mocking miserable too, because they’re stuck in the same cage of fear and bitterness. It’s such a waste.
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Loosening up, being forgiving, and letting people just exist without tearing them down sounds so basic, but it would genuinely help make this whole space feel alive again.
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