I told him that I didnt know and why was he ruminating on this now? he had dementia and cancer. I told him that he had destroyed by ability to trust and have normal relationships. He just said...hmmm.... like, how does that look on me? I was happy to have said it, but they never change. 2/
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He is gone and Im happy I was able to enlighten him about what happens when you are just not a good parent and also explosively angry. He didnt remember, but I remember. That's whats important. No therapy fixed it. No years of analysis fixed it. Its incurable. He was not dissimilar to Trump. 3/
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