ii totally get that ehehehe,, even in relationships where i am always submissive all of the time it's an important part of the dynamic that i WANT to be dominant with them sometimes and don't get to
being definitively beneath someone is really nice. being definitively above someone is alright, but largely not for me. my relative position with someone being in flux... oh yeah...
Switch for switch is so fun because it's like. You're constantly getting revenge for the indignities you've been subjected to while setting yourself up for your own downfall. It like. Perpetuates in such a delicious way.