adolin: tries a bit too hard to be affirming and treat you as a woman to the point he's accidentally misogynistic about it, but you know he means well
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shallan: freaks out at first but then spends 2 weeks of sleepless nights researching gender theory until she has her trans "aha" moment
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dalinar: occasionally messes up your pronouns but you don't mind bc you know he's doing his best and is silently beating himself up
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